Radio silence fishing
I am (in my opinion) outgoing, and have no problem speaking in front of people, but singing is something totally different. It wasn’t until I became an adult that I realized that the racing heart and sweating weren’t just due to nerves, but because I suffered from severe anxiety about singing in front of people. I started out in the choir at my church and was often asked to lead songs. You could certainly connect with your childhood friend on Facebook and attempt to re-establish a relationship without spilling the beans to see if Annie makes the first move.ĭear Amy: I have been singing my entire life.
Is your parents’ marriage and your father’s consensual relationship your news to share? Do you have the right to dive into your next-door neighbors’ marriage? However, I also feel strongly that some things just aren’t our business. I tend to believe that the truth is the truth, and we all might as well know the truth.
However, doing so, you might upend another family. Maybe “the good” is you unburdening yourself of knowledge you’ve always held onto as a deep secret. Related ArticlesĪsk Amy: Doctor suspects child has autismĪsk Amy: My husband is punishing me because his family is unvaccinatedĪsk Amy: Homeowner’s racial call-out offends familyĪsk Amy: Homemaker’s devotion is waste of a good careerĪsk Amy: Car sale goes sideways, feelings followĭear Conflicted: My reaction to this is - if you don’t know “the point” of an action or reaction, then you should wait until the point makes itself evident.Īnother way to think about this is to ask yourself: “What good could come of this?” Ask Amy: Affair between neighbors leads to awkward silence – The Denver PostĪnd, if they do not know about this, then why would I want to hurt them by telling them about this sordid history between their mother and my father, right?